Oh yeah, it’s still a thing.
Some people exult in the novelty of No-Nut November and others just happen to think it’s kind of silly, but the fact is that it’s one of the many trends that has been able to take root with enough people to be considered as something worth talking about. It sounds like a rather punishing way to live for even a week, let alone a whole month, but this internet challenge did take hold for a while, and some folks are still practicing it, so we figure meh, what the hell? It’s a great way to take a look at the sexuality of human beings and what drives us, what keeps us connected, and what kind of thoughts and beliefs that people have about sexuality and why it’s so important to so many people. It feels like a stretch, right? But the thing about this challenge is that it does take a lot of people by surprise when it comes to thinking of what sex means to them and why it might be deemed so important. Seriously, sex is a big part of the human experience since the majority of human beings could admit that they want it at least once in their lives, if not a lot more.
Going a month without sex, or without sexual release of any type, is tough when you’ve had release before, but easier when one has never had it. That sounds like a rather odd statement, doesn’t it? Trust me, it makes more sense than it sounds like since those who have never had sex or who have abstained from it for whatever reason don’t know the same release that others who have had sex have experienced. There are other ways to reach the state that is attained when one gets their rocks off, but for those of us who have had sex more than once in our lives, staying away from sex is kind of tough since once you get it, and you enjoy it, then you want more of it, your body wants more of it, and the release that comes from it, the feeling of being loose and relaxed, is desired time and again since it makes us feel good. Of course, some people don’t care for sex simply because they’ve had negative experiences and don’t believe that it’s for them. Hey, to each their own, right? But the point is that once you’ve had sex, then you know what it feels like when you’re not getting any, and it can suck the big one, metaphorically speaking.
But there are advantages to going a month without release, even if it doesn’t feel that way. Without needing to take the time to release that sexual energy, you’ll probably find a lot of different ways to use it up, as if you don’t focus on being frustrated you can possibly take the time to do things that you haven’t done before, like cleaning your house from top to bottom, or fixing things up, or taking care of the yard work, or just taking on any busy work that you’ve let go for a while. Hell, you can sort something like your personal files, whether they’re on your PC or in hard copy, you could sort your books, CDs, DVDs, whatever you have. Empty your kitchen and clean the cupboards thoroughly. I know, it sounds boring as hell, but then again, you could go outside and do something as well, hopefully, something productive. I know, it’s not easy to go without sex once you’ve had it, but in the No-Nut-November challenge, it’s imperative that you find something else to do.
With that in mind, let’s get into it and discuss a few things about women during No-Nut November. Hey, I never said it wasn’t going to be difficult, right?
Thankfully, if you’re in the right part of the world, you won’t feel the need to avert your eyes during this time of year.
Then again, there are plenty of other parts of the world that stay rather warm once other parts start getting cold and chilly. But the point was that around this time of year if you’re in the right place, women are generally starting to cover up, and those outfits that might have driven you wild in JO July (no, it doesn’t exist, I’m just making a point) have been placed in the closet or the dresser for something a little warmer and a lot less revealing. If you’re the type that can accurately look at a woman and imagine what she looks like under her clothes, well, then I’ve got nothing for you…perv. I’m kidding of course, but after a fair amount of time, a lot of guys might end up finding every noticeable curve and pleasing part of a woman when they press against her clothing. Otherwise, November is a slightly easier month to endure when it comes to holding back your sexual energies. At least, one would think it was.
Focus on something else, like the movies…or maybe that’s not a good idea.
It’s too tempting to snuggle up with your woman or a lady you happen to like when it comes to staying in and watching a movie, right? Well, head on to the theater then if you can afford it, and be ready to lose a kidney in payment if you want refreshments. I’m kidding of course, kind of, but at least at the theater it’s highly discouraged to engage in any kind of hanky panky, and you might get to watch a decent movie that you’ll want to talk about. Of course, if you’ve got a lady that likes to sit in the very back row and has a penchant for pulling a ‘whoops, that’s not my drink’ when she’s reaching for something, you might have a harder time of it. But thankfully, the ushers do still come in to check on people now and again, so keep your eyes on the screen and a bucket of popcorn over your junk if you feel the need, and enjoy!
On the upside, most ladies don’t go out in the snow like this except for a photoshoot.
It still doesn’t help that snow bunnies like to show off from time to time, does it? Oh well, at least when you’re actually hitting the slopes most women aren’t going to be stripping down to their panties, even though a lot of guys might like that sort of thing.
It might be time for some deep breathing exercises and a lot of video games.
Seriously, turn on the console and lose yourself in a game for a few hours at a time. Otherwise, you might be tempted to snuggle up during the colder months, and you know what that means, at least for this month. Granted, some guys are going to say screw it and admit that they can’t stay away from the V for that long. Stay strong though kings, if your queen is a real one, she’ll understand.
Some guys don’t have to worry about No-Nut November, keep that in mind.
Don’t feel for the guys that don’t have a woman or any game, just remember that there are guys out there that can’t just roll up on a woman and deliver a great pick-up line, or just start talking to the next woman they see. Those men that have the gift of gab and charm dripping out of their ears make it look easy sometimes, but then there are those guys who couldn’t get a woman to come home with them if they had a fat bank account and a huge…personality.
Seriously, just because you’re a man doesn’t mean you need to smash all the time.
Some folks out there think that men are simply programmed to smash every chance they get, meaning that a guy will be thinking about sex more than anything every day. I don’t know about all that, since thinking about sex doesn’t help someone get by in their everyday life unless they’re a porn star or work in the sex industry.
It’s hard, but it’s doable.
Getting by without sex isn’t like getting by without air, after all, you might feel like you need it, but chances are that you’ll get by just fine. Of course, if you had to look at this all the time, the first thing to say is that you’re one lucky sob, and the second is that yeah, it’s going to be difficult.
Look at it this way, by the end of the month, your woman is likely to be ready to pounce on you.
Women need sex too guys, don’t let them fool you by saying that they can control themselves. By the end of the month, they’ll likely be a lioness on the prowl. Just make sure you’re the one that they’ll be hunting.
Just think of all the stuff you’ll be able to get done in a month without sex.
Yeah, I’ve got nothin’ on this one…I’m just as content to stare as you are…
Your lady might not be that helpful.
Seriously, some women are bound to make it difficult for you this month, especially since, as I mentioned, they want it too. But here’s where it gets tricky. Make sure they know what’s up and that you don’t give them any reason to go looking elsewhere.
It’s amazing what can be sexy after you stop having sex.
It’s amazing what can look sexy when you haven’t had any interaction with a woman in so many days, but seriously, restrain yourself.
You’ve only got a few more weeks, just think about Thanksgiving and nothing else.
Football, Thanksgiving, food, think about this and repeat. If it doesn’t work, then…well, best of luck to you.
WTR? (Why’s That Radass?)
So long as social media is around there will be challenges to be issued to the general public. This is one of those that you can take on if you want, but it’s usually best to know what you’re getting into. Or rather, what you WON’T be getting into. Best of luck Radassers.
