Take a look at a few strategical methods to avoid being another sad statistic.
What does it mean to be a simp? Well, that’s the easy explanation, since a simp is someone that is silly, foolish, and willing to please another person even when they know that the person they’re ‘in love’ with is playing them. A simp will, more often than not, give everything they have to another person even if all they get is a smile and nothing else. Some people call this love, but to be fair, it’s a way to debase yourself for someone else in a way that is rarely, if ever, reciprocated. But do women like men who are simps? Statistics can be seen that women do prefer a certain type of man, but they also show that women are often far pickier than men when it comes to choosing a mate, or even just a date. One interesting statistic is that only 6% of women feel the need to ask men out. This tells us that a lot of women want men to pursue them, though several accounts have made it clear that women will still deny men if they don’t feel attracted to them right away.
It would be great to say that men don’t do this, but honestly, we do. Attraction is a big part of getting together with another person, but if you can believe this, 33% of men will take a casual look at many women even if they don’t feel an immediate attraction to them, while over 90% of women will tend to swipe right only when they feel attracted to the man’s profile. In other words, looks are far more important to women than men, which is kind of funny since one would assume that men would be a little more demanding when it comes to looks since, well, we’re often called pigs and worse if we look at a woman and determine that she’s not for us because of their looks. And yet, women tend to get away with this because if men decide to push up on a woman after being denied, we’re either labeled as creeps or ‘too aggressive’ and are a phone call away from a jail cell.
But if a man flashes that cash, it does make a big difference. It sounds horrible, right? I mean, many women would say they don’t care about money, they’ve got their own. And yet, roughly 26% of women are comfortable in letting a man pay for their meal. That sounds a little low, doesn’t it? The unfortunate part is that statistics can be falsified by people giving answers that they believe are real in their own minds, even if they act entirely different when they’re out and about. What does any of this have to do with being a simp or a stud? Well, a simp will do whatever it takes to keep a woman happy no matter if they get nothing out of it. A stud will know how to strategize to maximize their own pleasure while taking care of the woman they’re with. Oh, and the stud won’t typically worship a woman that wants everything but isn’t ready to give everything.
So, let’s see what else we can find out about when it comes to whether a man is a simp or a stud.
Studs won’t put up with nonsense, simps will take it and ask for more.
If there’s one thing to learn about being a stud, it’s when to stand up for yourself and when to lay back and let a woman have her victory. It’s not pandering, it’s learning how to pick your battles and retain your dignity, and letting a woman keep hold of hers as well. A simp will, unfortunately, agree and agree and agree again just to keep the peace, but will ignore the toxic nature of such a relationship for several reasons, one of those being they don’t want to be alone. About 33% of women have admitted that they don’t want a man that’s insecure and exceptionally needy, which means that a lot of women out there don’t mind if a man is willing to lavish all types of attention on them, so long as they get what they want.
Some women are more attracted to men who are taken.
Why is it that some women want to mess with married or taken men? It’s not exactly what you would call a social epidemic, but there is a theory that states that women will find a man more attractive if others show that he is in fact desirable for one reason or another. The only catch in this theory is the definition of ‘attractive’. If plenty of popular and highly attractive women tend to extoll the physical or even intangible virtues of a man, he might start looking a lot better to other women since they might feel that there’s something there that they haven’t seen yet. Perhaps he has the qualities they’re looking for, or maybe he has a fat wallet. Maybe there’s something else they desire that isn’t on display at all times…but we won’t get into that. The point is that if a guy is thought to be attractive and desirable, it can and usually does make women realize that he might be worth the effort of getting to know him.
What they need to worry over after that is whether or not they’re worth his time.
Are women’s standards too high?
This is a great question that needs to be asked since it would appear that a lot of women out there want men to cling to the traditional role of being the provider, the protector, but don’t want to be a traditional woman. Hey, I get it, if we clung to tradition it would mean a lot of women would be barefoot and pregnant and stuck at home with the kids and the house chores. That’s not how things go these days since plenty of women want to make their own money and be in charge of their own lives, sometimes away from the home. Guys, we do need to know how to keep up the home, take care of our own kids, and be able to take care of our ladies, since that’s what a real man is all about. But it is seen that some women want all the glamour and none of the drudgery that might come with being married with kids, or simply in an equal relationship.
A stud knows how to take care of his woman but not be taken in by her since like it or not, an equal relationship is what exists between equals who both contribute. Simps will give and give and not bother trying to confront their significant other, probably because they don’t like confrontations, or perhaps because they don’t dare to do so.
Some guys don’t do themselves any favors.
It would be kind of easy to blame women when it comes to those who have seriously materialistic attitudes and bratty dispositions, but guys have to take on the blame as well. The fact that women love when men simp for them isn’t all their fault, and it could have something to do with the idea that too many people have told them that they’re special and that they deserve the world. Guys that simp for women perpetuate this belief and end up giving more power to the spoiled and entitled women who think that they deserve everything without giving anything back to a relationship. Studs are those that know their worth and are willing to make a woman wait if they don’t care for their piss-poor attitude. Simps, on the other hand, will take the abuse and say thank you before bending down to take even more.
There are tricks to finding the right woman.
Telling men to be themselves doesn’t always work, but it’s a good start. Being yourself and learning how to read the room is a vital skill, as is being able to see what women want and listen to what they’re saying. If a woman is asking you to take care of them and provide them with everything they want then walk on, you’re a wallet she’s getting ready to use and abuse, and you don’t need that. If she’s genuinely interested in listening to what you have to say and actually listens, then it’s important to listen to her as well. Most dating and relationship tricks will boil down to a few key elements that any person is wise to pay attention to, and yes, being yourself is one of the most important. After all, if a person can’t like you for who you are, or see some value in helping you to change into who you want to be, then they’re in the relationship for themselves and aren’t going to be giving anything back other than a poor attitude.
In the end, just be you.
It’s kind of an overused saying, isn’t it? But it’s as true now as it’s always been since if a person can’t take you for who you are, then it’s time to evaluate why you’re there and what you’re getting out of it versus what you’re putting in. Don’t simp for a woman just because she’s hot or can make you feel all gushy inside. If she’s not willing to put as much into the relationship as you are, then do your best to find someone who will.
WTR? (Why’s That Radass?)
Don’t be a simp for anyone, especially a woman that wants you for your money. You can do better, and you can find better. A lot of good women are out there waiting to find someone that wants an equal relationship. You don’t need to settle for someone that’s just window dressing.