Some people get turned on by smart people.
Not just mentally turned on, but get physically aroused by intelligence.
The name for this group of people is Sapiosexuals, and the following info will come in handy for all you Radasses out there. I had set out to investigate this because my girlfriend heard me talking about something I know a lot about, and just jumped me where I was.
Naturally, I wanted to know how I can get this to happen again.
What is Sapiosexuality?
The term Sapiosexuality comes from mixing sexuality with wisdom (sapience).
sapiosexual (plural sapiosexuals) A person who is sexually attracted to a person’s intellect or mind before appearance.
How can you use it to your advantage?
The first rule of thumb is, don’t force it.
Talk about what you know but try not to sound arrogant, because it could get the opposite effect when your girlfriend thinks you’re fishing for compliments because you’re insecure.
Always do it with some wit and humor, instead of lecturing.
How to get a sapiosexual turned on:
- Teach her something: When you have something you’re good at, teach your girlfriend how to do it.
- Play games with her: Any games that stimulate the mind. My Girlfriend’s favorite mental foreplay is playing chess. Her dirty looks make me finish the game quickly so we could move on to the main event.
Any game would do, as long as it involves thinking.
You could also turn any game into an R-Rated version, like turning poker into strip poker or turning any loss into a dare.
- Read a book to her: Especially if it’s her favorite book. She will appreciate you taking up her interests.
Pro tip: pick a book that has sex scenes, and read her favorites out loud.
- Learn something new together: And share your thoughts afterwards. Critical thinking and debating is a big turn on for sapiosexuals.
So, how do you get your girlfriend turned on by your brains? Share your tips with the Radasses in the comment section!
Let’s be honest, women sometimes go for simple and exciting, but more often than not, if they have the choice and the chance, they’ll go with intelligent and capable.